Menopause, a natural transition in a woman's life, often brings a range of physical and emotional changes. While hormone replacement therapy (HRT) is a common medical approach, dietary and lifestyle adjustments can significantly alleviate symptoms and improve overall well-being. This article, informed by NHS guidelines and expert recommendations, explores how strategic changes to your diet and daily habits can help you navigate menopause with greater ease and vitality.
Understanding Perimenopause and Menopause
Perimenopause is the lead up to menopause. The term is often used interchangeably with menopause, but menopause refers to the specific point in time when a woman has gone 12 consecutive months without a period. Everyone experiences perimenopause differently. Hot flashes, irregular periods, and vaginal dryness are common, and many people put on weight. The timing, length, and intensity of perimenopause vary, but on average, women start to develop symptoms in their forties.
Menopause officially arrives when you’ve gone a full 12 months without a period. Most women reach this milestone between ages 45-55, with 51 being the average age here in the United States.
After your final period, estrogen levels settle at a lower level and your body stops producing progesterone altogether.
Postmenopause: All the years that follow (potentially a third of your life!).
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Here's a surprising fact: women spend about 40% of their lives after menopause. With life expectancy now reaching 89 years, this means roughly 38 years of postmenopausal life.
How Your Body Changes During Perimenopause
During perimenopause, you’ll experience fluctuations in levels of the reproductive hormones estrogen and progesterone. As you get older, your post-meal blood sugar levels increase. These spikes in blood sugar levels and the dips that may follow can make you feel tired and hungry again soon after eating. In the longer term, higher blood sugar can contribute to the risk of heart disease, type 2 diabetes, stroke, and other so-called metabolic diseases. Blood fat levels increase as you get older, too, and some research has found that women’s fat metabolism changes during perimenopause.
Combined with the effects of aging, perimenopause can directly or indirectly contribute to an increased risk of a number of physical and mental health conditions, including osteoporosis, heart disease, depression, and obesity. Some of the most common changes and symptoms you may experience include: temperature changes (hot flashes/night sweats)blood pressure changes and heart palpitations changes to your metabolismchanges to muscle and boneweight gainmenstrual changesmood changesbrain fog or difficulty concentrating sleep disturbances digestive problems vaginal dryness
Declining estrogen levels directly alter brain chemistry. Lower estrogen leads to decreased serotonin levels, which can cause irritability, anxiety, and sadness. Depression rates in women are twice as high as in men.
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Genitourinary syndrome of menopause (GSM) affects about half of all postmenopausal women. Your body's estrogen levels drop by about 95% after menopause, which leads to this ongoing condition. You might notice vaginal dryness first, but the symptoms can spread to both sexual and urinary systems.
Half of older women face urinary changes, especially incontinence. You might leak when you laugh or sneeze - that's stress incontinence. Or you might feel sudden, strong urges to pee - that's urgency incontinence. Your body's lower estrogen levels weaken pelvic floor muscles that hold up your bladder.
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The Importance of a Healthy, Varied Diet
What you eat and drink during perimenopause and beyond can not only help to alleviate certain symptoms but also support your long-term health. Researchers have found links between plant-based diets and fewer hot flashes as well as improved quality of life in terms of physical, psychological, and sexual health.
Even if going fully plant-based is not for you, getting plenty of beneficial nutrients and fiber - as well as adding diversity into your diet - can help you through perimenopause and beyond.
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A good way to achieve this is by following a Mediterranean diet that is high in vegetables, fruit, healthy unsaturated fats, fish, and lean meat.
The NHS menopause diet approach focuses on bone protection, heart health, and symptom management. A "Mediterranean style" diet is the life-blood of NHS recommendations. It emphasizes fresh fish, abundant vegetables, and plant-based fats like olive oil.
Women who try a Mediterranean-style diet see promising results. Studies show that eating more fruits and vegetables helps reduce menopausal symptoms.
Key Dietary Components for Menopause Management
Fiber
Getting enough fiber is great for your health, but many people don’t eat enough of it. Fiber provides fuel for your gut bacteria, which turn it into many different beneficial chemicals.
Good sources of fiber include vegetables, fruit, whole grains, and legumes. Research has found links between fiber and a healthier gut, lower risk of ovarian cancer, better performance in physical tests such as walking and grip strength, and reduced symptoms of depression. Foods containing lots of fiber can also help you feel fuller for longer, improve your cholesterol, and lower your risk of heart disease.
Protein
During perimenopause, and as you get older, you may see a decrease in your lean muscle mass and an increase in fat. Increasing your daily protein intake can not only help you manage your appetite, but may also reduce body fat, improve cholesterol, help maintain lean muscle mass, and decrease risk factors for heart disease.
Good sources of protein include tofu, beans, eggs, nuts and seeds, fish, and legumes like chickpeas, soybeans, and lentils. Aim to have adequate amounts of high-quality protein from food sources like lean meat, fish, dairy, nuts and seeds. Protein is important at this life stage (look to achieve about 1.1g per kilogram of body weight per day) because it may help you maintain a healthy body mass index (BMI).
Vitamins and Minerals
Your risk of osteoporosis - which can cause weak and brittle bones - increases with age. Perimenopause also makes you particularly susceptible to certain vitamin and mineral deficiencies.
Foods rich in calcium and vitamin D - like dairy, green leafy vegetables, soybeans, and oily fish - are good for your immune system and improve bone and muscle health.
Vitamin D tops the list because it becomes significant for bone health when estrogen levels decline. The recommended intake is 10 micrograms (400 IU) daily. Supplements are especially important between October and March in the UK. Calcium works with vitamin D to maintain bone density. The NHS recommends 700mg of calcium daily for adult women. B vitamins play a vital role in hormone regulation and energy production. Vitamin B6 supports hormonal activity and helps reduce tiredness and fatigue.
Omega-3 Fatty Acids
These substances found in fish like salmon, mackerel, and sardines may lower your chance of stroke and heart disease and improve your metabolic health. They may help manage symptoms of perimenopause like night sweats and depression, too. Diets high in both fiber and omega-3 fatty acids have also been linked to a lower risk of developing symptoms of depression, anxiety, and stress.
Research links higher omega-3 levels to better overall health in postmenopausal women.
Aim to have 2 portions of oily fish (for example salmon, sardines, mackerel) twice a week.
Water
Staying hydrated is important for your health at any time of life, but as people age, their risk of dehydration goes up because their bodies replenish fluids at a slower rate. Hormonal changes during perimenopause can also be a factor in this.
Your sensitivity to thirst may be lower, and so you may need to be mindful of drinking enough water. As well as providing essential electrolytes and nutrients, drinking enough water can help relieve hormonal symptoms like bloating, hot flashes, and headaches. You can get some water by eating foods like watermelon, cucumber, or lettuce, but experts recommend drinking about 2 liters (6-8 cups) a day.
Other Supplements
Beyond simple vitamins, certain supplements show promise for managing postmenopausal symptoms. Magnesium supports multiple aspects of menopausal health. It helps regulate melatonin levels for better sleep, reduces anxiety, and contributes to bone health. Probiotics can restore gut balance for digestive issues that often appear during this transition.
The evidence for herbal supplements remains mixed. Black cohosh and red clover might reduce hot flushes, but quality and safety concerns exist.
Foods and Drinks to Limit
At ZOE we don’t believe in restrictive diets. Calories are not your enemy; you need them for energy in the lead up to menopause, just like in all other stages of life. However, there are some foods and drinks that can make perimenopause symptoms worse and can lead to unwanted weight gain. Limit these to the occasional treat to help with your symptoms.
Cutting back on caffeine, alcohol, and spicy foods helps minimize hot flushes and night sweats.
Alcohol
Some research suggests that low to moderate alcohol intake may be associated with later menopause, and that small amounts of beer could reduce some perimenopausal symptoms. That’s because beer contains small amounts of phytoestrogens, which are chemicals from plants that mimic some of the functions of estrogen.
But getting phytoestrogens from food may be a better way to reap these benefits because alcohol can contribute to skin flushing and make your hot flashes worse. If you’re prone to these, try switching to alcohol-free alternatives.
Current recommended limits of alcohol are a total of 14 units a week, with a maximum of two per day.
Caffeine
Perimenopause can make your blood pressure and your body temperature fluctuate, and for some women, caffeine can make this worse. It can also increase the risk of heart palpitations. If you’re a caffeine lover, try gradually transitioning to decaf coffee or herbal teas to see if this helps with your symptoms.
Watch out for caffeine-free sodas, though - carbonated drinks can reduce calcium absorption.
Spicy Food
For some people, chilis and hot peppers can trigger hot flashes or make them worse. Try limiting these to see if this helps with your symptoms.
Sugary and Ultra-Processed Foods
Sweets, desserts, and ultra-processed foods like chips and fast food may increase your risk of perimenopausal symptoms. Ultra-processed food is also bad for the bacteria that live in your gut.
The Role of Exercise
Exercise is crucial for any weight loss plan, particularly during menopause. It helps burn calories, builds muscle, and strengthens bones. The NHS recommends at least 150 minutes of moderate-intensity exercise per week to improve heart health and aid weight management.
Physical activity becomes vital during your postmenopausal years. Weight-bearing exercises like walking, dancing, and jogging help keep your bones healthy. Research shows women who did resistance training saw their hip function and lower body strength improve by 19%. Exercise works on many levels-it helps maintain healthy weight, strengthens bones, lifts mood, and helps you sleep better.
Movement might just be your secret weapon during menopause. The NHS recommends at least 150 minutes of moderate activity (think brisk walking where you can talk but not sing) or 75 minutes of vigorous exercise (where you’re breathing hard enough that conversation becomes difficult) each week. Adding strength training twice weekly completes this powerful prescription.
Regular physical activity can actually reduce how often hot flashes strike and how intense they feel. Many women also notice improved sleep, easier weight management, and significant mood boosts. Perhaps most importantly, exercise strengthens your bones and muscles at precisely the time when your body needs that support most.
The magic of exercise during menopause isn’t in perfect workouts-it’s in consistency. Finding activities you genuinely enjoy transforms exercise from a chore into something you look forward to.
| Exercise Type | Benefits for Menopause | Recommended Frequency |
|---|---|---|
| Cardiovascular (walking, swimming, cycling) | Improves heart health, helps manage weight, reduces hot flashes | 150 min/week moderate or 75 min/week vigorous |
| Strength Training (weights, resistance bands) | Preserves muscle mass, strengthens bones, boosts metabolism | 2-3 times/week |
| Weight-bearing (walking, dancing, tennis) | Maintains bone density, reduces osteoporosis risk | 3-5 times/week |
| Balance & Flexibility (yoga, tai chi, Pilates) | Improves posture, reduces fall risk, manages stress | 2-3 times/week |
The natural decline of oestrogen in post-menopausal women decreases bone mineral density, muscle mass and strength, which can increase the risk of osteoporosis. Patients should be advised to take weight bearing exercise and include calcium in their diet to avoid this. The Royal Osteoporosis Society provides excellent fact sheets and a calcium calculator that can be used to assess intake. Current NHS guidance on physical activity for adults recommends that adults should aim for 150 minutes of moderate exercise or 75 minutes of vigorous exercise and include strengthening activities at least 2 days a week.
Additional Lifestyle Adjustments
Improving your health and well-being during perimenopause is not just about your diet. As well as eating certain foods, limiting others, and finding out more about your personal responses to foods, you can also make other adjustments to your lifestyle.
Quit Smoking
Along with major health conditions such as cancer and heart disease, smoking has been linked to worse and more frequent hot flashes.
Improve Sleep Patterns
When it comes to healthier blood sugar responses, ZOE research shows that sleep sleep quality and going to bed earlier are more important than how many hours you get.
Sleep disturbances trouble nearly half of all women during menopause. Changes in hormones directly affect your sleep cycle. Declining estrogen and progesterone levels can disrupt your circadian rhythm.